真爱，就要懂得让步

  
     ”真爱，就要懂得让步“，这句话说得非常正确！若你真的爱，真的在乎，你就会懂得让步。这是我的体会。

     上个星期五和男朋友吵架了。我们很少会吵得那么严重。这一次算是第二次，而且比上一次更为严重，还差点就分手了。吵架原因是因为我不遵守我对他的承诺，让他不高兴，让他生气。我打电话他不接，whatsaap他不回，他不曾这样过，所以这一次，我真的让他生气到了极点~

     连续两天他都不睬我，甚至连我去到他家他也不理会我。3次，我去他家3次他都不理我，这让我很难过~
     
     直到星期一早上，他终于回复我的信息。我们在信息里吵着。最后，他还说给彼此一个月的时间好好想想我们之间的关系，到时候再决定是否要继续这段感情。看了这番话，我顿时晴天霹雳，眼泪情不自禁的流下来。我很生气，本来想干脆就这样算了，对彼此也好。但是，当我冷静下来以后，想想，是我错在先，是我不守诺言，所以无论如何，我都得把问题修复好。

     我不管三七二十一跑到他家去。终于，我们找到了一个解决方案，一个双方都认同的解决方案。当然，这间中包含了他对我无数的包容与退让，我们才不至于搞到分手的局面。

     我很庆幸拥有一个懂得包容与体谅我的他。我也很庆幸自己没有因为一时的生气而说了些不该说的话。两个人在一起不容易，彼此要懂得谅解，要适当的让步，感情才可以维持得长久。因此，吵架了永远不要轻易说分手。毕竟，爱情不是1+1=2；而是0.5+0.5=1。是两个不完美的人在一起，相互配合，才变得完美。

   

思念

曾经告诉过自己，不会再因为想你而流下眼泪。但是，我做不到。每当到了夜晚临睡前，思绪自然而然的就会想起你。想起你当年送我进大学的情景；每个学期送我回宿舍，然后迷路回家；毕业后陪我去应征我的第一份工作；为了接我工作回家而又迷路；在你生日时送你一双你喜欢但不舍得买的包鞋你对我说的第一句“谢谢”；为了等我们回家BBQ而等到三更半夜；

我真的没想过22岁就会失去你，和你的父女缘分会是这么的短。总觉得，你会活到我们都长大结婚生子。。毕竟，那是理所当然的啊！只是谁又会想到，老天爷这么快就把你从我们身边带走，把我们一切的一切都化为回忆。。。

8个月了，总觉得事情不该是那样发生的。事发当时，我有一种预感你会得救的。我感觉你不会这么早就离开我们的。我很拼命的向老天爷祈求把你救回来。。。只是最后，你还是离开了。。。

你离开的那一幕我末生难忘。它像是影片般不断的在我脑海出现。看着你的照片，你的名片，但心里知道你不会再出现，我不会再有爸爸，那种心痛和遗憾，该怎么形容呢。。。

The Day I'll Never Ever Forget

          It is Friday again. And I can remember the Friday in 6 weeks ago very well cause it had given me a deep and painful memory...

          19 August 2011... the day my father passed away and 19 October 2011 is my convocation day (this was also my grandma's death date). It is so ironic! They are in the same date and only two months difference! Sometimes, I will imagine the situation my dad attends to my convocation. How will it feels like if he can be there with me sharing my happiness and see her daughter graduates... I guess, he must be very happy but he will just standing there and acting cool though deep in his heart he feels comforted that her daughter has graduated. But now... all this will not going to happen and he will not have the chance to attend my convocation anymore! He will not see her daughter wearing graduate attire and be conferred with bachelor degree on the stage...

          3years ago, he was the one who sent me in to University. 3years later, he is not able to see me graduated from my University. I hated that he always get lost and wasted few hours time searching for the way back home after sending me back to university. I hated that I said I wanna show him the way back but he said he knew yet in fact he was not sure...

          Dad, can you hear me in heaven? Do you know that I am going to have my convocation ceremony soon? Your 3rd daughter, the one that always like to make you angry is going to graduate and she really hopes that you can see that glorious moment!